Tuesday, February 12, 2013

GENDER BALANCE - The Emergence of the Modern Urban Woman in India


In modern urban India, at least in a metropolitan city like Pune, I am observing an amusing cultural metamorphosis taking place.

The thrust in professional education for women has done wonders and opened up increasing opportunities for young women.

Almost all young women work, and they take their careers seriously.

There are hardly any full time housewives or “homemakers” these days. 

Women are achieving financial independence and women are no longer dependent on their “breadwinner” husbands. 

As women work shoulder-to-shoulder with men, modern women are developing masculine traits.

Yes, in order to achieve gender equality, especially at the workplace, women can no longer act in the quintessential delicate feminine manner of yesteryear India.

In order to succeed in their careers and break the glass ceiling, women have to become more “masculine” in nature and this transformation is visible in their personality.

She Women are becomingHe Women”.

However, a corresponding reverse transformation is not taking place among men.

Men are not developing feminine traits.

He Men are not becoming She Men”.

Earlier we had “she-women” and “he-men”.

Now we have “he-women” and “he-men”.

This metamorphosis is disturbing the “gender equilibrium” in society.

You must have heard of Yin-Yang Balance.

A Woman is Yin.

A Man is Yang.

Yin is passive, oppressed and feminine.

Yang is active, bright and masculine.

Male toughness is balanced by Female gentleness.

Masculine Traits are balanced by Feminine Traits.

Thus, gender balance or gender equilibrium is maintained.

Yin-Yang Balance helps maintain Harmony.

Disturbing the delicately poised “gender equilibrium” may upset Yin-Yang Balance and, maybe, this is the reason for the gender related disharmony in society.

What is the solution?

Well, if you are a “mathematician” or “scientist” you will say: It is simple – just balance the “gender equilibrium” equation.

If increasing masculization of women is balanced by corresponding feminization of men, gender balance will be restored, and the problem will be mitigated.

All you have to do is to balance the increasing number of “he-women” by a corresponding number of “she-men”.

But this is easier said than done.

In today’s urban scenario, owing to compulsions of the workplace or as a consequence of cultural modernization in society, women are developing masculine traits.

Yes, “she-women” are increasingly becoming “he-women”.

Now, in order to achieve Yin-Yang Balance, and restore gender equilibrium, are modern men prepared to imbibe feminine traits?

Are “he-men” prepared to become “she-men”?

If this does not happen, Yin-Yang balance will be disturbed and this will not augur well for harmony in society which will become more and more “masculine” in nature with its consequential ramifications.

Think about it.

We look forward to your comments and views.

Have a Happy Tuesday.

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