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Thursday, March 26, 2015

WHY WE FOLLOW RITUALS CUSTOMS AND TRADITIONS

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WHY WE FOLLOW RITUALS CUSTOMS AND TRADITIONS

Do you believe in rituals? Or follow customs and traditions? 

Are you superstitious? 

Then – you must read this witty story titled  THE MYSTICAL CAT – from my Teaching Stories Archives.

THE STORY OF THE MYSTICAL CAT
Ancient Wisdom Teaching Story
Narrated By
VIKRAM KARVE

The military is steeped in tradition.

There are many customs, traditions and rituals.

I remember  there was a custom in the Army  in the Artillery  where you do not light more than two cigarettes with a single matchstick.

There was a logical reason for this practice during World War I  when – in the darkness of the night – an enemy sniper or gun observation post – first saw – then took aim – and fired on the third light.

But today  this tradition seems archaic and meaningless.

In the Navy  we do not clink glasses while drinking or making a toast.

This is plain pure superstition.


In the Navy, if we asked the reason for a certain custom which we found meaningless  our seniors would admonish us: This is the Naval Tradition”  

Even in our day to day life  in the name of tradition  we unquestioningly follow customs, traditions and ceremonies and perform all types of religious, social and superstitious rituals without understanding the spirit behind the ritual.
 
A ritual is an action performed purely for symbolic value.
 
In many cases there is no logic or rational explanation for the ritual. 
 
This apocryphal story from ancient wisdom The Mystical Cat” illustrates how customs, traditions and rituals begin – and continue unquestioningly till eternity.

The story also tells you how due to repeated repetition over the years these customs and rituals are gradually established and become a part of culture. 

And then, once established, customs, traditions and rituals are blindly followed for years and years, despite the fact that, in most cases, these customs and traditions have lost their significance and the rituals have outlived their utility and meaning.
 
THE MYSTICAL CAT – an apocryphal wisdom story retold by Vikram Karve

A seeker joined a monastery to learn meditation and the art of living. 

Every evening all students and disciples assembled in the large meditation hall for a discourse by the Spiritual Guru followed by group meditation.

Just before the meditation session commenced the disciples would catch a cat.

Then they would tie up the cat – and place the tied up cat on the lap of the Spiritual Guru. 

The Guru would then start caressing the cat  and begin the discourse and meditation session. 

After the meditation session was over  the cat would be untied and set free.

This was the established daily ritual.

The Guru would start the meditation session only after the tied up cat was placed on his lap.

The Spiritual Teacher was extremely particular about this.

Once when the cat could not be found  the Guru refused to start the meditation session and demanded that the cat be placed on his lap.

So the meditation session was delayed  and all the seekers launched a desperate hunt for the cat.

The searched for hours till they found the cat.

The cat was duly tied up and placed on the Guru’s lap  and only then did he start his discourse-cum-meditation session.

The seeker was quite perplexed at the mystery of the tied up cat. 

He could not understand the significance of this ritual.

In fact he was quite puzzled at how this ritual of a tied up cat on the Guru’s lap was connected to meditation. 

The seeker wondered: What is the significance of the tied up cat placed on the Gurus lap and what is its correlation with meditation?” 

He asked around the monastery – but no one knew the answer  till someone told him to ask a wise old man who lived in a cave up the hills.

So – one morning  our curious seeker trudged up the hills to meet the wise old man  and – when he met the wise old man’ – the seeker asked him the significance of this time-honoured ritual.

“It is like this,” the wise old man said:

“one evening  many years ago  when the then Spiritual Guru and his disciples began their evening meditation  a cat that lived in the monastery made so much noise  that it distracted them  and disturbed their meditation practice. 

So the Guru ordered that the cat be tied up during the evening discourse-cum-meditation practice. 

This practice of tying up the cat before meditation practice continued  so much so  that even after the Spiritual Teacher died  the next Guru continued this tradition – and the cat was tied up every evening during the meditation session.

When the cat died  another cat was brought to the monastery to be tied up during the evening meditation session.

And when that cat died too  they brought another cat to be tied up during meditation practice  and then as cats kept dying  they kept replacing the dead cats with new cats  and the practice of tying up a cat during meditation continued.

With the passage of time this became an established ritual.

Once precedence has been established  no one can dare to question it. 

So  it has become a custom, tradition and established ritual to tie up a cat during the meditation session.” 

Satisfied by this story – the seeker came down to the monastery – and from then onwards – the seeker actively participated in the daily evening pre-meditation ‘tying up the cat ritual.

Many years passed  but the ritual of tying up the cat during the meditation session continued and continued  – till it became an eternal established ritual.

Our seeker 
 who by then had become the Spiritual Guru  wrote a scholarly treatise about the significance of tying up a cat for meditation practice.




DO YOU BLINDLY FOLLOW RITUALS, CUSTOMS, TRADITIONS AND SUPERSTITION WITHOUT QUESTIONING THE LOGICAL BASIS OR RATIONALE ?

I wonder why we accept customs and traditions without understanding their significance?

Just like a blind man lead by others who are blind 
 why do we blindly follow rituals without examining the meaning, logic and significance of that ritual using our own intelligence and judgement?


Why do we follow customs, traditions and rituals that are obsolete  – and which have lost their significance and outlived their utility?


If you see any ritual, custom or tradition being blindly followed by people  and for which there seems to be no rational or logical explanation  remember this story of ‘The Mystical Cat.


Ask questions  and find out the logical basis for the ritual, custom or tradition. 


Is there some rationale for the belief  or is it just superstition?


And if you are not convinced  it is better to stop blindly following superstition which has become meaningless in the modern world of today.


VIKRAM KARVE
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Thursday, July 11, 2013

RANKOPHILIA - Love of Rank or Rank Consciousness

RANKOPHILIA
EXCESSIVE LOVE OF RANK or RANK CONSCIOUSNESS
Musings
By
VIKRAM KARVE

If you have served in the defence services, you will have come across rank consciousness, especially in the highly regimented army, where even some army wives are excessively rank conscious.

I have seen some such Rank Conscious Wives (RCWs) vitiate social life in the services.

For an officer, being rank conscious may be fine while he or she is in service.

But some of these snobbish types even try to throw around their erstwhile rank after retirement.

Sometime back I witnessed an amusing spectacle of a retired erstwhile senior army officer trying to pull rank and jump a queue for renewing his CSD Canteen Card despite the fact that he was now a “retired nobody”.

Of course, he was put in his place by those around him who told him to get into the queue, and the chastened rank conscious snob beat a hasty retreat.

When I was in the Navy I observed that there were two types of officers:


1. THE GOOD OFFICERS

These were the confident type of officer, who carried themselves with poise and dignity, were well-bred, polished, cultured and courteous.

They were honest, transparent, fair and upright in their conduct and quite humble, modest and down-to-earth in their behaviour. 

These officers did not need the crutches of rank 

In fact, by their exemplary demeanor these officers enhanced the dignity of the rank they held 

They always put service before self

These “good officers were role models for their juniors to admire and emulate.  

They truly epitomized the term: “An Officer and a Gentleman”.


2. THE CAREERIST STATUS CONSCIOUS SNOB

Then there were the insecure type who were excessively rank conscious haughty show-offs who believed in the dictum:

“Boot your juniors and Boot-lick your seniors” 

They were unabashed careerists who put self before service because for them their rank and status were everything

For these insecure types - rank, promotion and their naval career was the be-all and end-all of life.

They knew, in their hearts, that they lacked genuine Officer Like Qualities or OLQ

So they faked OLQ by using bluff and bluster, pulling rank and overdoing the “Rank Has Its Privileges” or RHIP syndrome.

For them, rank was everything, because they knew that without the crutches of rank they were zeroes.

So they wanted to get promoted at any cost and they were prepared to go to any extent, and stoop to any level, in order to achieve their sole aim of getting promoted to high rank

It is this insecure and ambitious type of careerist officers who often misuse their rank and get involved in scams, scandals and unethical acts and tarnish the good name of the service. 

Such careerists may get promoted to high rank, but by their unethical conduct they terribly damage the reputation of the entire service.

Snobbish and pretentious behaviour is a sign of low self-esteem.

And it is this low self esteem that is the root cause of RANKOPHILIA (Excessive Love of Rank or Rank Consciousness)

The greek word philia means excessive liking or love.

So rankophilia means excessive love for rank 

And an overly rank conscious officer may be called a rankophile

So, if you see any status-conscious, pompous, egoistical snobs and rankophiles around you, who seem to be afflicted with rankophilia, maybe you can tell them this apocryphal story in the hope that they will introspect, reflect and change for the better.

DROP YOUR RANK and EGO

A TEACHING STORY FOR THE STATUS CONSCIOUS SNOB and RANKOPHILE

Keichu, the great Zen teacher of the Meiji era, was the head of Tofuku, a cathedral in Kyoto.

One day the Governor of Kyoto called on him for the first time.

His attendant presented the visiting card of the Governor, which read:


Kitagaki

GOVERNOR OF KYOTO


The Zen Teacher Keichu looked at the visiting card and said to the attendant: “I have no business with such a fellow. I do not want to meet him. Just tell him to get out of here.”

The attendant carried the card back to the Governor with apologies.

“That was my error,” said the Governor.

He asked the attendant for a pencil.

Then with the pencil he scratched out the words GOVERNOR OF KYOTO.

Governor Kitagaki then gave the card back to the attendant and said to him, “Take this card to your teacher and ask him again if he would please give me an audience.”

The Zen Teacher Keichu saw the card and exclaimed with happiness: “Oh, it’s that Kitagaki? I want to see that fellow. Send him inside immediately.”


So that’s the secret.

If you want to get rid of rankophilia, just DROP YOUR RANK and DROP YOUR EGO.

Why is everyone so obsessed with rank, status, power, wealth, fame and other egoistic trappings?

Your individual qualities matter much more than your rank

Your external rank will go away one day

but 

Your intrinsic worth will remain with you forever, and maybe it will be remembered as your legacy. 

And once you retire, what matters more is your present accomplishments rather than your past rank which is irrelevant in civil society. 

VIKRAM KARVE
Copyright © Vikram Karve 2013
Vikram Karve has asserted his right under the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988 to be identified as the author of this story. 
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A creative person with a zest for life, Vikram Karve is a retired Naval Officer turned full time writer and blogger. Educated at IIT Delhi, IIT (BHU) Varanasi, The Lawrence School Lovedale and Bishops School Pune, Vikram has published two books: COCKTAIL a collection of fiction short stories about relationships (2011) and APPETITE FOR A STROLL a book of Foodie Adventures (2008) and is currently working on his novel and a book of vignettes and an anthology of short fiction. An avid blogger, he has written a number of fiction short stories and creative non-fiction articles on a variety of topics including food, travel, philosophy, academics, technology, management, health, pet parenting, teaching stories and self help in magazines and published a large number of professional  and academic research papers in journals and edited in-house journals and magazines for many years, before the advent of blogging. Vikram has taught at a University as a Professor for 15 years and now teaches as a visiting faculty and devotes most of his time to creative writing and blogging. Vikram Karve lives in Pune India with his family and muse - his pet dog Sherry with whom he takes long walks thinking creative thoughts.

Vikram Karve Academic and Creative Writing Journal: http://karvediat.blogspot.com
Professional Profile Vikram Karve: http://www.linkedin.com/in/karve
Vikram Karve Facebook Page:  https://www.facebook.com/vikramkarve
Vikram Karve Creative Writing Blog: http://vikramkarve.sulekha.com/blog/posts.htm
Email: vikramkarve@hotmail.com
Twitter: @vikramkarve
      
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Sunday, February 24, 2013

VVIP and VIP CULTURE

VVIP and VIP CULTURE 

By
VIKRAM KARVE

Nowadays, thanks to the name dropping game and prevalent VIP Culture, everybody wants to be a “somebody” - yes, every individual wants to be a VIP or even a VVIP.  

How does an ordinary citizen (the aam aadmi) deal with this proliferating VIP and VVIP Culture? 

Maybe this Mulla Nasrudin Story gives us a clue.


Mulla Nasrudin decided to attend a grand reception given by the King to which he had not been invited.

He pompously entered the VIP area and seated himself at the foremost elegant chair. 

The Chief Usher approached Mulla Nasrudin and said: “Sir, this is the VIP enclosure and these places where you are sitting are reserved for Guests of Honour.”

“Oh, I am more than a mere guest,” replied Nasrudin confidently.

“Oh, so are you a diplomat…?”

“Far more than that…” replied Nasrudin haughtily.

“Really…? So you are a Minister, perhaps…?”

“No, bigger than that too….” Nasrudin said pretentiously.

“Oho…! So you must be the King himself, Sir…” said the Chief Usher sarcastically.

“Higher than that…” Nasrudin said ostentatiously.

“What…? Are you higher than the King…? Nobody is higher than the King…!”

“Now you’ve got it right. I am nobody…!” said Mulla Nasrudin.


Dear Reader, think about it. 

What is the moral of the story? 

Why is it that a nobody is higher than a King, higher than all so-called VIPs and VVIPs? 

This is because Real Elevation of the Self comes through the Abandonment of Ego.

That's the message of this story: Just drop your Ego and see how you truly rise

Maybe it is best to be a nobody rather than a “somebody”.

Because if you try to be a “somebody” you can always fall.

But if you are a “nobody” you will always rise.

Let this wisdom perambulate in your mind and have a nice day.


VIKRAM KARVE
Copyright © Vikram Karve 2013
Vikram Karve has asserted his right under the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988 to be identified as the author of this work. 
© vikram karve., all rights reserved.

Did you like this article?
I am sure you will like the 27 short stories from my recently published anthology of Short Fiction COCKTAIL
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COCKTAIL ebook
If you prefer reading ebooks on Kindle or your ebook reader, please order Cocktail E-book by clicking the links below:
AMAZON
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B005MGERZ6
SMASHWORDS
http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/87925

Foodie Book:  Appetite for a Stroll
If your are a Foodie you will like my book of Food Adventures APPETITE FOR A STROLL. Do order a copy from FLIPKART:
http://www.flipkart.com/appetite-stroll-vikram-karve/8190690094-gw23f9mr2o

About Vikram Karve

A creative person with a zest for life, Vikram Karve is a retired Naval Officer turned full time writer and blogger. Educated at IIT Delhi, IIT (BHU) Varanasi, The Lawrence School Lovedale and Bishops School Pune, Vikram has published two books: COCKTAIL a collection of fiction short stories about relationships (2011) and APPETITE FOR A STROLL a book of Foodie Adventures (2008) and is currently working on his novel and a book of vignettes and an anthology of short fiction. An avid blogger, he has written a number of fiction short stories and creative non-fiction articles on a variety of topics including food, travel, philosophy, academics, technology, management, health, pet parenting, teaching stories and self help in magazines and published a large number of professional  and academic research papers in journals and edited in-house journals and magazines for many years, before the advent of blogging. Vikram has taught at a University as a Professor for 15 years and now teaches as a visiting faculty and devotes most of his time to creative writing and blogging. Vikram Karve lives in Pune India with his family and muse - his pet dog Sherry with whom he takes long walks thinking creative thoughts.

Vikram Karve Academic and Creative Writing Journal: http://karvediat.blogspot.com
Professional Profile Vikram Karve: http://www.linkedin.com/in/karve
Vikram Karve Facebook Page:  https://www.facebook.com/vikramkarve
Vikram Karve Creative Writing Blog: http://vikramkarve.sulekha.com/blog/posts.htm
Email: vikramkarve@sify.com
      
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