TATTOO – WHY DO PEOPLE HAVE TATTOOS
Musings
By
VIKRAM KARVE
Whenever I see a person with a tattoo, I get
intrigued.
Why do people have tattoos made on their
body?
Why do some beautiful persons stain and blemish
their soft flawless skin?
Why do they go through the expensive and painful
process of inking?
What is the reason people want to have a tattoo?
In order to understand this mystery I decided
to go into the basics of human behavior.
Tell me: “Why do you behave in the way you
do?”
You behave in a certain way to satisfy your
needs at that point of time.
In fact, all your behaviour is governed by
your intrinsic motivation to satisfy your needs.
Yes, your
needs influence your behaviour.
The process
of human behavior can be summarized in four
steps:
1. A need is aroused within you
2. You behave in a way to satisfy the need
3. The need is satisfied
4. You relax
So, what do you think are the “needs” that
motivate a person to have a tattoo?
Do you have a tattoo?
Yes?
Do tell us: What was the “need” you wanted to satisfy by having a tattoo?
Was it
the need for thrill and adventure?
Did
you have a tattoo to satisfy your need to seek attention?
Or is
your tattoo your way of expressing your sense of rebellion in order to satisfy your needs for freedom or self-expression?
Did you
have a tattoo due to peer pressure to
satisfy your need to belong or conformance or identification with a group?
Historically,
tattoos were used to brand slaves –
so maybe you wanted to be “branded” as someone’s “slave” so you got that
person’s name tattooed on your body.
Is
that the reason you got your lover’s name tattooed on your body – to fulfill
your need to show off your love or your
need to be dominated.
Did
you want to display to the world that you “belong” to your lover and you are
his “slave” and vice versa?
What will happen if you
break up with your lover whose name is tattooed on your body?
Someone
once told me that people have secret
tattoos in hidden places on the body which no one can see – like at the
base of the spine on the lower back just above the derriere.
It is
a mystery as to why people have such tattoos, but obviously they are satisfying
some need – maybe some need for secrecy
or sensuality or exclusivity.
They
say that tattoos are expensive, painful and permanent.
I also
heard that tattoo removal is even more expensive and painful.
I read
an article once that in many cases tattoo removal may be ineffective.
They say
that it is impossible to actually remove a tattoo – you can lighten it, nothing
more.
And
you may never get back the flawless skin that you had before you got the tattoo
done. If your skin is sensitive, it may get damaged or discoloured forever.
I am
sure that before a person decides to have a tattoo done on their body, they
know all these implications.
But
their “need” is so strong and overpowering that it motivates them to go ahead
and satisfy their need by getting a tattoo.
Like I
said earlier, historically, tattoos were used to brand slaves
In
ancient times, tattoos were used as a mode of communication between spies.
Once
upon a time, members of some mafia used to wear symbolic tattoos to identify as
members of a certain crime syndicate.
Seamen
and sailors came back with tattoos, a tradition that would soon become
associated with men of the sea.
But
all this happened in ancient times.
I
wonder why so many people have tattoos in this modern age.
If you
have a tattoo, or intend getting a tattoo, maybe you can answer this question and
tell us:
“Why do you have a tattoo?”
VIKRAM KARVE
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11 comments:
I intend to have a tattoo because I think it is a medium of self-expression. As I am a tight-lipped person, the things which I can't express through words, I want to express it through tattoo.
I always wished to have tattoo but don't have any till the date because there were many negative points. So that's not the point, point is why someone wants to have a tattoo - I am not sure about others but for me this comes in the same category in which we get our Ear and Nose pierced and wear different, heavy ornaments. Those are too painful process but we do because we love to.(Admit for some, piercing can be a social mandatory thing but it was not for me, still i got my ears pierced.)I don't thing people do it to prove something, it's just a human feeling to decorate your body with different things.
I intend to have a tattoo because I think it is a medium of self-expression. As I am a tight-lipped person, the things which I can't express through words can be expressed through tattoos.
@ Rajani
Thank you for your comment.
So, it looks like you want to have a tattoo to satisfy your "aesthetic" need for "decorate" your body.
But tell me, do you want this "decoration" to be permanent?
And do tell us about the beautiful design you choose when you finally decide to have that tattoo.
I agree about your views that piercing may be socially mandatory in case of nose and ears, but nowadays fashionable persons get various parts of their bodies pierced.
By the way, you mentioned that there are some negative points due to which you did not get a tattoo as yet - do tell us what are these negative points of tattooing, in your opinion.
@ Pratik
So you want to have a tattoo to satisfy your need for "self expression"
Do tell us on which part of your body you want to get that tattoo to "self-express" yourself, and what type of tattoo you intend getting.
I intend to have tattoo on my right hand from shoulder to elbow. This will indicate how I feel about my family members & the things which I can't express about their nature. I'll include 4 designs. First of Dragon, for my father who is dominating, always telling me to do things in his way like fire coming out of dragon's mouth. Second of deer, for my mother who is kind, cool minded. Third of scorpio, for my brother who minds his own business,but if we try to tease or provoke him, he doesn't care about anything. Last, sign of peace, for me as I'm a diplomat, try to avoid conflicts. This tattoo can be called as 'whakapapa' as per Māori culture.
i would like to read an article on Tattoos and why people adorn them, this was well written but more of a questionnaire, i understand you meant to get views from readers. still, expecting a detailed article on Tattoos and even symbology if you can.
Great Blog :D
I have a Tattoo, an Om on my right hand, I got it when I was thirteen and had visited a beach named Om beach in Gokarna (Karnataka), My name is Omesh and being at the beautiful beach I felt getting the first letters of my name on my right hand a little auspicious as the word Om had a connection with my name, the beach and the temple at Gokarna, Hence I got this tattoo to symoblize the event of my life.
A church has stained glass windows. It filters light and creates a certain atmosphere inside the church. It transports those who enter the church away from the normal daylight world and into another plane, call it unconscious or dream state, even in daylight. Tattoos serve the same function. Your body is enveloped in the colored light of another world. Going under water and emerging is also a similar symbol - that of transformation. A person with tattoos is in a constant meditation, or at least that is the attempt. This is Joseph Campbell's explanation. Of course there are others.
Its a mental thing, a subtle way to stay under the spotlight
Interesting reasons why so many people want to have permanent tattoos.
Some want to be in the spotlight, some have a tattoo as a means of self expression and some want to know about the symbology. Well, I'll try and write something on this.
Meanwhile, before you have a tattoo remember that it is a permanent things - so don't do something impulsive that you will regret later - take a considered decision before you tattoo your body. (Remember the movie "The Hangover" where a guy gets a tattoo in a drunken state which he regrets later - Moral of the Story - Never Drink and Tattoo !!! LOL
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