Thursday, July 4, 2013





Each individual has some good points and some bad points.

Yes, every person has some positive attributes and some negative attributes.

When two individuals interact, or become friends, or colleagues, we expect that each one will imbibe the good aspects of the other one.

But on many occasions exactly the opposite happens and each one picks up the bad habit of the other one.

In most cases, the “bad” tends to influence the “good”.

It is very rare that the “good” wins over the “bad”.

This phenomenon of “reverse osmosis” is more predominant in youngsters who are of an impressionable age where peer pressure influences you and dominates your actions.

Let us take a scenario of youngsters studying in college.

Suppose a non-smoker become friends with a college crowd, most of whom are smokers.

Tell me, what is more likely:

Will the smokers pick up the positive virtue from the non-smoker and quit smoking?


Will the non-smoker “emulate” his friends and start smoking?

Most of us picked up our smoking and drinking habits emulating our smoker and drinker friends, did we not?

Yes, if you are a non-smoker and have smoker friends you are more likely to become a smoker rather than all your smoker friends emulating you and giving up the smoking habit and becoming a non-smoker like you. It is the same with drinking and other addictions too.

Think of your school and college days and all the habits you picked up.

It may be due to peer pressure or other reasons, but we tend to pick up bad habits from others rather imbibe good points from those we interact with.

It is the same with other bad habits like drinking, gambling and harmful addictions and undesirable activities.

It is more common to see good persons “falling” into bad company and ruining their lives.

On the contrary, it is quite rare to see a “bad” person being reformed by “good” company.

It is easier to slide down the slippery slope of vices. 

It is difficult to climb up the steep gradient of virtue.


This phenomenon of “reverse osmosis” happens at the group level and organizational level too.

When two organizations interact we expect that each organization will imbibe the positive aspects of the other’s organizational culture.

However, sometimes exactly the opposite happens.

Let me give you an example from my own experience.

When I was in the Navy, I was once posted to an institution called IAT Pune.

IAT was an inter-service training and research organization.

There were employees of two different cadres posted in IAT:

1. Uniformed Defence Personnel of the Army Navy and Air Force


2. Civilian Research Scientists

I expected that when these two different types of cadres interacted with each other, each cadre would inculcate the positive aspects of the other.

I thought that the “laid back” scientists would imbibe the good habits of punctuality and discipline from the defence service officers.

I also expected that the do-as-you-are-told regimented “soldiers” would cultivate a right-brain “out of the box” thinking approach and imbibe a “scientific temper” from the scientists.

To my amusement I observed exactly the opposite.

The “soldiers” were quick to embrace the slack discipline and the laid-back “chalta hai” attitude of the scientists.

And the scientists were quick to adopt the rigid thinking and hierarchical rank-consciousness prevalent amongst defence officers.

In fact, some scientists became so rank conscious and sensitive about their “status” that they were obsessed with things like inter-se seniority and rank equivalence  especially vis-a-vis  military officers and civilian bureaucrats,  often resulting in strained relations and infructuous red tape.

Despite the fact that they called themselves “scientists” they were extremely hypersensitive about their place in the “pecking order”.

It was amusing to see these “boffins” wasting most of their energy in arguments debating and getting agitated over disputes on who was senior and who was junior instead of getting on with their scientific research work.

Research Scientists had imbibed military hierarchy concepts which are totally alien to a “scientific temper”.

Some civilians were afflicted by military rankomania to such an extent that one senior scientist even demanded that he be saluted.

The upshot of all this was that most “research scientists” became more interested in “administering” and “managing” rather than devoting themselves to conducting scientific research.

The end result of this soldier-civilian interaction was that you got exactly the opposite of what you had envisaged.

The mutual interaction ended up producing “civilians in uniform and “soldiers in civil dress.

I have seen this phenomenon of “reverse osmosis” happening in other quasi-military organisations like DGQA, DRDO, MES, NCC and in Delhi Centric Offices as well, where there are a large number of civilians interacting with uniformed service officers and personnel.  

Such are the ironies, paradoxes, incongruities and absurdities of life which you can observe all around you.

You want “osmosis” – but you end up getting “reverse osmosis”.


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