Sunday, October 20, 2013



learnt more about the art of living from reading literature than from hearing sermons and moral lectures, or from high-falutin philosophy or spiritualism.

One thing good about the navy is that it inculcated and fostered the reading habit in me.

I read a lot of sea stories and novels like The Cruel Sea, The Caine Mutiny, Run Silent Run Deep, HMS Ulysses and so many more.

One sea novel I like very much is THE CAPTAIN by Jan De Hartog.

In this story, the protagonist is a Merchant Navy Officer who is frustrated because, owing to reasons beyond his control, he gets stuck in Tugs whereas he wants to sail in the main fleet.

Seeing his frustration, his Tug Captain tells him a saying:

“ Ou Dieu vous a seme, il faut savoir fleurir ” 

which roughly translated means

“ You must know how to flower where God has sown you ” 


“ wherever God plants you, there you must learn how to bloom ”

The young merchant navy officer takes this to heart - he works very hard on the tug, and then throughout his career on tugs with dedication and devotion to duty.

In due course he becomes the most famous sea-going Tug Captain and ultimately the owner of flourishing company with a huge fleet of ocean going tugs.

I too tried my best to imbibe this philosophy in my life, especially in my naval career - wherever the navy posted me I tried my best to “flower

It is good philosophy to apply in your life:

“wherever God plants you, there you must learn how to flower and bloom”

If you do not get what you like


you must learn to like what you get 


you must make the most of it 

Like they say in the Navy:

If you don’t like it, just lump it - like it or lump it 

There is another saying I read a few years ago:

If life gives you a lemon, make lemonade.

Yes, when life gives you a lemon use that lemon and make lemonade instead of cribbing and carping, wallowing in self pity, becoming bitter and spreading bitterness, and making your own life hell and everyone else’s life miserable.

Like they say in NLP :

There is no such thing as failure” 

There is only “learning experience

So, metaphorically, the lemon” is the failure and the lemonade” is the learning experience.

And this “learning experience” will enable you to “flower” and bloom wherever you are “sown” or “planted

Well, I have tried to follow this mantra - “ Ou Dieu vous a seme, il faut savoir fleurir  

When I was in the Navy, wherever the navy transferred me, to whatever job they assigned me, whether they promoted me or not, I tried not to get disillusioned or demoralized, and in my own inimitable style, I tried to do my best to “flower” and bloom wherever I was “sown” or “planted

Yes, I made lemonade” with all the lemons the navy gave me.

I am trying to do this after my retirement too, trying to “flower” and bloom in the back-of-beyond lonely place called Wakad, near Pune, where God has planted me after my retirement. 

That is one of the reasons you are reading this blog.

Yes, the result of all this “flowering” and blooming is this prolific blog and the couple of books I have written. 

Well, I am going to flower and bloom away and bash on regardless with my blogging and writing since this is the best thing I can do where God has planted me. 

God has given me the lemon” of loneliness. 

And from this lemon I made the lemonade” of my blogs and my books and all my writing.

Have a good day - whatever lemons” you get today, just keep making lemonade” and enjoy every drop of it.

Sometimes you may feel a sense of “failure” - you may feel that you have “failed in life.

There is no such thing as “failure” - it is all in the mind.

And still if you feel a sense of “failure” - think of “failure”  as a lemon” and make lemonade”.

And talking of the lemon” of “failurelet me tell you one thing I have learnt from my own life experiences.

Sometimes, failure is good - you can take my word for it.

Remember the saying:

“Ou Dieu vous a seme, il faut savoir fleurir”  
(wherever God plants you, there you must learn how to flower and bloom)

Apply this to your life and you will “flower and bloom” wherever you are.

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