Wednesday, October 26, 2011


Happy Diwali - A Diwali Resolution

(Diwali Resolution – Be Happy)

The primary aim of philosophy and spirituality is to help ordinary people live a life of happiness, fulfillment, inner peace and tranquility.

Every day you ask yourself - How do I live a happy life? Is it simple to be happy? What is the art of happiness?

Let us see what the Taoist philosopher Mingliaotse has to say: “The art of attaining happiness consists in keeping your pleasures mild."

You know that whenever pleasure is present you are happy - this is a fact that cannot be denied - for a pleasure is an enjoyable event or delightful emotion which is bound to make you happy, at least for that moment.

Highfalutin philosophers and spiritual gurus may prescribe various impracticable esoteric paths of renunciation, asceticism or sectarian precepts eschewing enjoyment and pleasure as the sine qua non of happiness, but the fact of the matter is that to the ordinary person happiness and pleasure are inextricably intertwined.

Discovering simple enduring pleasures which you can easily and regularly achieve, realize and enjoy in your day-to-day life will produce contentment, fulfillment and happiness.

Pleasure is certainly not a bad thing in itself, but wanton pursuit of pleasures is counterproductive as it leads to over-indulgence and excesses which bring with them disturbances which are detrimental to our happiness and well-being.

In your search for happiness you tend to indulge in extravagant parties, unrestrained extravagance, conspicuous consumption, compulsive shopping, thoughtless profligacy, limitless spending, expensive entertainments and try to enjoy everything at once, instant gratification by over-indulgence in drinking, eating, revelry and sensual pleasures, stretching yourself to the maximum limits possible.

At first you enjoy yourself and feel happy but when you come to the point of satiety you begin to feel a sense of repulsion, and if you overdo yourself, next morning you wake up sick and feeling miserable with a sense of sadness and depression rather than happiness.

Grandiose, complicated, ostentatious, lavish, unrestrained and intemperate indulgences which you think will ostensibly make you happy, in actual fact, render you stressed-out, unhappy and cause you harm and misery in the long run.

There is no need to overdo things in order to be happy.

Just keep your pleasures mild.

Enjoying a simple, tasty and healthy meal with your loved ones and friends, or just sitting quietly and leisurely reading a good book, taking a walk enjoying melodious music, enjoying your work, leisure, hobbies are some mild pleasures which will make you happy and keep you healthy too.

It is simple to be happy.

The first thing you must do is to introspect and list your most pleasurable activities - things that give you true joy, happiness and satisfaction - in all aspects of your life. Make your “happiness list” as exhaustive as possible and from this list select those “mild pleasures” that you can enjoy every day or very frequently, often. Then incorporate these pleasures in your routine and fit them into your daily life.

See what happens.

Some “pleasures” that you thought would make you happy actually do the opposite, don’t they?

Delete those "pleasures" that you thought would give you happiness but actually made you feel stressed-out or depressed - things you thought would be satisfying but actually turned out to be unrewarding.

Experiment, make changes, be watchful, dynamic. Do not hesitate to add new items to your list - you can always remove them if they fail to produce the desired results.

Fine tune and religiously put into practice your list and experience happiness every day.

This prescription of keeping your pleasures mild will enable you to structure your life in way where your happiness will be in your control and you will find greater joy in your life.

It will be feasible and within your control to ensure that you enjoy these mild pleasures daily or at least fairly regularly and, with only so many hours during the day, these enjoyable events will begin to crowd out the neutral, unpleasant, and irrelevant activities in your daily life and this will make you feel fulfilled and happy.

Dear reader, start today, on the auspicious day of Diwali and discover the true art of happiness, the art of living.

Discover your mild pleasures that make you truly happy and joyful. 

And do let me know your experience – did this simple philosophy of keeping your pleasures mild make you happier?

It is simple to be happy, isn't it?



Viyoma said...

Simple yet profound
Happy Diwali to you Sir.

Vikram Waman Karve said...

@ Viyoma - Wish you a very Happy Diwali. Thanks for your comment - I am glad you liked this post

Seema said...

Wish you a very Happy and Prosperous Diwali.

Vikram Waman Karve said...

@ Seema - Thank you so much. Wish you a very Happy Diwali

Vikram Waman Karve said...

@ Mr Lonely - Have a Happy Diwali and great year ahead