Thursday, August 1, 2013


Musings - a story

“I am going to America,” she says.

“The United States of America – USA…?” I ask.

“Yes,” she says.

“Wow. So you are going for sightseeing and tourism,” I comment.

“No. I am going for my daughter’s confinement,” she says.

“Confinement…? Is your daughter in trouble? Has she been arrested? Is she is prison? What happened…?”

“No. No. No. Nothing is wrong with her. My daughter is pregnant. I am going for her delivery. By ‘confinement’ I mean the pregnancy time period during which a woman gives birth to a child.”

“Oh. Congratulations. But why do you have to go all the way there to America? Why doesn’t your daughter come here to Pune for her delivery?”

“Why should she come over here?”

“Well, I thought a daughter goes to her mother’s place for her first delivery. I remember that you went to your mother’s place for your first delivery.”

“That was different.”

“Why? Even your elder daughter came to your house for her first delivery.”

“My elder daughter lives in India – that is why she came to my house for her delivery. My younger daughter lives in America – that is why I have to go there.”

“I don’t understand. Why can’t your younger daughter come here for her delivery? The facilities are good here. Or is there some advantage in having the delivery over there in USA?”

“I don’t know. Stop asking so many questions. You’re irritating me. I did ask my daughter to come here for her delivery. But she said that I would have to go there – so I have to go – that’s all,” my friend says, and she walks away, quite annoyed with me.

In the middle-class locality of Pune where I live almost all children have migrated abroad, mostly to the USA, to live a good life and realize the “American Dream”.

Some went abroad for higher studies, some went via the IT route, some went via marriage – and all of them have settled down there and they have no intention of coming back to India.

They have left their parents to fend for themselves back home.

They don’t even want to come to India to deliver their children.

They all want to have their babies in America.

So mothers have to go for long periods to America to look after their daughters during their “confinement” period – which may extend to over 6 months.

Later, these NRI daughters want their mothers to come over for “nanny” duties.

The earlier generation looked after their parents in their old age.

Now there is a role reversal.

The new “NRI generation” wants their old parents to look after them, despite the fact that these NRI’s have abandoned their country of birth leaving their parents high-and-dry to fend for themselves in their old age – all this in their singular quest for a better life abroad.

But that is another story.

The moot question is:

Why are NRI women reluctant to come home to India to deliver their babies?

Why do they want their children to be born in America?

Any Answers ?

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