Thursday, February 28, 2019

Six Secrets of a Healthy Marriage

SIX SECRETS OF A HEALTHY MARRIAGE
By
VIKRAM KARVE 

SIX SECRETS OF A HEALTHY MARRIAGE

1. There is no place for secrets between husband and wife

Trust is the bedrock of marriage. 

Unconditional love is born from total trust and leads to marital bliss. 

Even a small seed of mistrust can germinate into a huge tree of distrust – and cause marital discord  and eventually – this mistrust can ruin your marriage relationship.

2. There is place for only two persons in a marriage

Do not allow relatives and friends to transgress into your unique marital space.

3. There is no place for “social graces” or fake emotions in a marriage

Within your marriage  express your emotions frankly and freely. 

If you do not like something  say so. 

Your spouse is your closet friend and confidante. 

Mutual behaviour between husband and wife must be genuine, full of no-holds-barred candour, and fully transparent. 

You must bare yourself totally before your spouse. 

You must have unrestrained passion in your marriage. 

You can follow the social graces, soft-spoken politeness and contrived geniality bit when dealing with friends, relatives and colleagues  but  you must be frank and free with your spouse. 

4. Your marriage takes priority over parenting

Do your duty towards your children  but not at the cost of your married life. 

Remember  you are only a trustee towards your children  but a lifelong partner to your spouse.

5. Ensure both togetherness and space in the marriage

To do this  both husband and wife must make a list of things they like doing. 

Activities that match – the things that you both like to do  try to do these activities together. 

The items that do not match  do them separately.

6. Get a pet  preferably a pet dog  immediately after your honeymoon – especially if you have an arranged marriage. 

Pet parenting will cement and bond your marriage  and prepare you for parenting when your human children arrive. 

Wish you a Happy Married Life. 

VIKRAM KARVE
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