SIX SECRETS
OF A HEALTHY MARRIAGE
By
VIKRAM
KARVE
SIX SECRETS OF A HEALTHY MARRIAGE
SIX SECRETS OF A HEALTHY MARRIAGE
1.
There is no place for secrets between husband and wife.
Trust is the bedrock of marriage.
Unconditional love is born from total trust and leads to marital bliss.
Even a small seed of mistrust can germinate into a huge tree of distrust – and cause marital discord – and eventually – this mistrust can ruin your marriage relationship.
Trust is the bedrock of marriage.
Unconditional love is born from total trust and leads to marital bliss.
Even a small seed of mistrust can germinate into a huge tree of distrust – and cause marital discord – and eventually – this mistrust can ruin your marriage relationship.
2.
There is place for only two persons in a marriage.
Do not allow relatives and friends to transgress into your unique marital space.
Do not allow relatives and friends to transgress into your unique marital space.
3.
There is no place for “social graces” or fake emotions in a marriage.
Within your marriage – express your emotions frankly and freely.
If you do not like something – say so.
Your spouse is your closet friend and confidante.
Mutual behaviour between husband and wife must be genuine, full of no-holds-barred candour, and fully transparent.
You must bare yourself totally before your spouse.
You must have unrestrained passion in your marriage.
You can follow the social graces, soft-spoken politeness and contrived geniality bit when dealing with friends, relatives and colleagues – but – you must be frank and free with your spouse.
Within your marriage – express your emotions frankly and freely.
If you do not like something – say so.
Your spouse is your closet friend and confidante.
Mutual behaviour between husband and wife must be genuine, full of no-holds-barred candour, and fully transparent.
You must bare yourself totally before your spouse.
You must have unrestrained passion in your marriage.
You can follow the social graces, soft-spoken politeness and contrived geniality bit when dealing with friends, relatives and colleagues – but – you must be frank and free with your spouse.
4.
Your marriage takes priority over parenting.
Do your duty towards your children – but not at the cost of your married life.
Remember – you are only a trustee towards your children – but a lifelong partner to your spouse.
Do your duty towards your children – but not at the cost of your married life.
Remember – you are only a trustee towards your children – but a lifelong partner to your spouse.
5.
Ensure both togetherness and space in the marriage.
To do this – both husband and wife must make a list of things they like doing.
Activities that match – the things that you both like to do – try to do these activities together.
The items that do not match – do them separately.
To do this – both husband and wife must make a list of things they like doing.
Activities that match – the things that you both like to do – try to do these activities together.
The items that do not match – do them separately.
Pet parenting will cement and bond your marriage – and prepare you for parenting when your human children arrive.
Wish you a Happy Married Life.
VIKRAM KARVE
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