Showing posts with label retire. Show all posts
Showing posts with label retire. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Retirement Planning – Wisdom Story : Vow of Celibacy

IDEAL RETIREMENT = “NIRVANA

Ideally – Retirement should be “Nirvana”.

Retired life should be free from all encumbrances and responsibilities – to enable you to live the life you always wanted to live.

You have played your innings – and now – you can relax and enjoy being a spectator.

But  is it so?

If you have retired – or are about to retire – here is a wisdom story for you to ponder over  the story is called “VOW OF CELIBACY

RETIREMENT IS “NIRVANA
Are You Ready “Nirvana” ?
Inspirational Wisdom  For the Retired and About to Retire
By
VIKRAM KARVE


VOW OF CELIBACY - An Apocryphal Teaching Story by Vikram Karve

A worldly man seeking Nirvana, true enlightenment, renounced worldly life.

He took a strict vow of celibacy – which was the sine qua non for attaining enlightenment and achieving a state of nirvana

He then headed for the hills to live an ascetic existence of a hermit.

He found a secluded cave where he began his simple contemplative meditative life.

He survived on natural wild vegetation in the forest  and he began his journey towards his quest for enlightenment and attaining nirvana.  

One day  he noticed holes in his robe.

He discovered that there were lots of rats in the cave who were chewing off his robes.

Soon 
 the rats were nibbling at his toes and disturbing his meditation.

Perplexed  he went down to the town  and he consulted his Guru who said: “No problem. The solution is simple. Get a cat.”

“A cat...?” asked the man, perplexed.

“The cat will take care of the rats,” the Guru said.

So our nirvana seeking man got a cat  and he took it up to his cave.

The cat took care of the rats 
 and the man was undisturbed in his quest for enlightenment.

A few days later  the cat had eaten up all the rats in the cave.

As there were no rats left to eat  the cat started feeling hungry.

One day  the famished cat started moaning with hunger.

The constant moaning and crying of the cat disturbed the man’s meditation.

So  the man again rushed to consult his Guru.

“Get a cow,” the Guru advised the man.

“A cow...?” the man exclaimed in astonishment.

“Yes. The cow will yield milk with which you can feed your cat and satiate its hunger,” the Guru said.

So – the man got a cow.

He took the cow up with him  and he tied the cow outside his cave. 

Now the man would spend some time milking the cow – then feeding the cat with cow’s milk  and then settle down for his meditation.

A few days later the cow stopped giving milk  and the cow mooed loudly in a sad tone.

The hungry cat too had started moaning again.

Totally disturbed by the shrill anguished moaning of the hungry cat and loud disquieting mooing of the starving cow  the wise man ran to his Guru once again to seek his advice.

“Buy some seeds and plant them. Grow grass. Water your garden and tend to the plants. The crop will give food for the cow and for you,” the Guru said.

The man planted the seeds which yielded food both for the cow and for himself.

However now the man had to spend so much time tending to his garden 
 feeding and milking his cow  and giving milk to his cat  that he hardly got any time for meditation.

He rushed to his Guru again for help.

The Guru once again had a ready solution: “There is a young woman – she is a widow – poor thing  she is a destitute woman. She will look after everything  she will take care of all your needs  and you can meditate in peace and attain enlightenment.”

So – the man took the young woman up with him to the cave.

It was indeed a wonderful arrangement.

The young woman looked after everything.

The garden bloomed  cow and cat flourished  and the wise man could do his meditation undisturbed in his quest for enlightenment and he was on the path to nirvana.

Then  the winter season came  and it started getting cold.

One day it began to snow  and the temperature fell to sub-zero.

The young woman started to shiver owing to the biting cold.

Soon 
 she could not bear the bitter cold any longer.

So the woman snuggled into the wise man’s bed.

She still felt cold.

So the woman tightly embraced the man with her arms.

But this was not enough – and she continued to feel cold – so she put her legs around him.

But – even now – she still felt cold – so she put her entire body in physical contact with his body  as that was the only way for her to keep warm.

Now tell me  which man can resist the tight embrace of an attractive woman in the prime of her life...?

His vow of celibacy lay shattered.

And so – with the vow of celibacy” broken  there ended the man’s quest for enlightenment and nirvana.

Soon  with all his new possessions to look after (the cat, the cow, and the woman)  the man returned back to the material world.

He began to live a worldly life as he used to do before  the same busy worldly life from where he had begun his journey towards enlightenment to attain Nirvana.

The “wise man was back to square one.

His dreams to attain a state of Nirvana remained unrealized  as he got busy with his worldly life.


MORAL OF THE STORY

RETIREMENT MEANS NIRVANA

Metaphorically  retirement is supposed to be nirvana”.

And celibacy is the essential prerequisite to attain a state of nirvana”.

“Celibacy” means burning your bridges to your previous material world  cutting off from your work life  and “doing nothing”.

Once you retire  you are supposed to give up all your “worldly” activities  and attain a state of bliss.

But does everyone do that?

I have seen that for many retired persons  there is no difference between their retired lives and earlier busy lives.

Even after you retire  you keep getting involved in various worldly affairs due to which you are not able to achieve the idyllic state of a blissful retired life.

Read the Story again.

And think about all the worldly activities which are hampering your quest for a tranquil and blissful retired life.

Is your retired life “Nirvana”...?

Are you living the tranquil life you always wanted to life in your autumn years...?

Have you “switched off”...?

Or – even after retirement  are you still entangled in the hurly-burly of worldly affairs...? 

VIKRAM KARVE
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Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Musings on RETIREMENT


RETIREMENT
When is the Right Time to Retire
Musings
By
VIKRAM KARVE

A few days ago I received an invitation from my erstwhile institute, the DIAT Deemed University Girinagar Pune, to deliver a guest lecture next month. 

This evoked memories of my previous visit a few months ago to DIAT when I had been invited to deliver the inaugural lecture to a course I used to conduct earlier.

I speak well and was well-versed on the subject of my talk and my lecture was very well received and highly appreciated.

My former faculty colleagues were quite delighted to meet me and after witnessing the enthusiastic and energetic manner in which I delivered my lecture and observing the excellent response from the audience, everyone asked me:

“You are still in full form. Why did you retire?”

In reply, I told them this story.

The great cricketer Vijay Merchant who was at the peak of his cricketing career suddenly announced his retirement after scoring a century against England

When his surprised fans and fellow cricketers asked him why he had unexpectedly decided to retire when he was at his prime and in top form, Vijay Merchant replied:

It is better to retire when people ask WHY? rather than WHY NOT?

Think about it.

Look around your workplace.

Observe how your colleagues, your seniors, your juniors and others treat you.

Do they consider you a relic of the past?

Do they tolerate you as an old fogey because of your past successes and reputation?

Are you past your prime?

Or are you at the peak of your career?

Introspect.

Is it time for you to retire?

Why not retire at the peak of your career?

If you retire at the peak of your career you will be fondly remembered for your competence and successes.

Or do you want to wait till you reach your level of incompetence and cling on to your job until people get fed up of you and start commenting behind your back saying that it is high time you retire.

Remember, it is always better to retire when people ask “WHY?” rather than “WHY NOT?”

Retirement from your job does not mean retirement from life.

In fact, after retirement a new exciting life begins when you are not a slave to your job anymore and you have the freedom and time to do whatever you want and to pursue your passions.

So, when you “retire from your job” make sure that you don’t “retire from the world”.

This quote by Dr. Samuel Johnson aptly describes what you must do to begin a new exciting life after your retirement from your job:
         
Exert your talents and distinguish yourself, and don’t think of retiring from the world until the world will be sorry that you retire. I hate a fellow whom pride, or cowardice, or laziness, drives into a corner, and who does nothing when he is there but sit and growl. Let him come out as I do, and bark.

VIKRAM KARVE
Copyright © Vikram Karve 2012
Vikram Karve has asserted his right under the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988 to be identified as the author of this work. 
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A creative person with a zest for life, Vikram Karve is a retired Naval Officer turned full time writer and blogger. Educated at IIT Delhi, IIT (BHU) Varanasi, The Lawrence School Lovedale and Bishops School Pune, Vikram has published two books: COCKTAIL a collection of fiction short stories about relationships (2011) and APPETITE FOR A STROLL a book of Foodie Adventures (2008) and is currently working on his novel and a book of vignettes and an anthology of short fiction. An avid blogger, he has written a number of fiction short stories and creative non-fiction articles on a variety of topics including food, travel, philosophy, academics, technology, management, health, pet parenting, teaching stories and self help in magazines and published a large number of professional  and academic research papers in journals and edited in-house journals and magazines for many years, before the advent of blogging. Vikram has taught at a University as a Professor for 15 years and now teaches as a visiting faculty and devotes most of his time to creative writing and blogging. Vikram Karve lives in Pune India with his family and muse - his pet dog Sherry with whom he takes long walks thinking creative thoughts.

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Sunday, May 27, 2012

RETIREMENT - THE RIGHT TIME TO RETIRE FROM YOUR JOB

Retirement from your job does not mean retirement from life.
In fact, after retirement a new exciting life begins when you are not a slave to your job anymore and you have the freedom to do whatever you want.


RETIREMENT
The Right Time to Retire

A few months ago I visited my erstwhile institute, the DIAT Deemed University Girinagar Pune to deliver a lecture. (I had been invited to deliver this inaugural lecture to a course I used to conduct earlier).

My former faculty colleagues were quite delighted to meet me and after seeing the enthusiastic and energetic manner in which I delivered my lecture and observing the excellent response from the audience, everyone asked me:

“You are still in full form. Why did you retire?”

In reply, I told them this story.

The great cricketer Vijay Merchant who was at the peak of his cricketing career suddenly announced his retirement after scoring a century against England

When his surprised fans and fellow cricketers asked him why he had unexpectedly decided to retire when he was at his prime and in top form, Vijay Merchant replied:

It is better to retire when people ask WHY? rather than WHY NOT?

Think about it. Look around your workplace. Observe how your colleagues, your seniors, your juniors and others treat you. Do they consider you a relic of the past, tolerate you as an old fogey because of your past successes and reputation? Or are you at the peak of your career? Introspect. Is it time for you to retire? Why not retire at the peak of your career? And be remembered for your successes. Or do you want to wait till you reach your level of incompetence and cling on to your job (like some people who never want to retire) until people get fed up of you and start asking you “WHY NOT?”

VIKRAM KARVE
Copyright © Vikram Karve 2012
Vikram Karve has asserted his right under the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988 to be identified as the author of this work. 
© vikram karve., all rights reserved.

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I am sure you will like the 27 short stories from my recently published anthology of Short Fiction COCKTAIL
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COCKTAIL ebook
If you prefer reading ebooks on Kindle or your ebook reader, please order Cocktail E-book by clicking the links below:
AMAZON
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B005MGERZ6
SMASHWORDS
http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/87925

Foodie Book:  Appetite for a Stroll
If your are a Foodie you will like my book of Food Adventures APPETITE FOR A STROLL. Do order a copy from FLIPKART:
http://www.flipkart.com/appetite-stroll-vikram-karve/8190690094-gw23f9mr2o

About Vikram Karve

A creative person with a zest for life, Vikram Karve is a retired Naval Officer turned full time writer. Educated at IIT Delhi, ITBHU Varanasi, The Lawrence School Lovedale and Bishops School Pune, Vikram has published two books: COCKTAIL a collection of fiction short stories about relationships (2011) and APPETITE FOR A STROLL a book of Foodie Adventures (2008) and is currently working on his novel and a book of vignettes and short fiction. An avid blogger, he has written a number of fiction short stories, creative non-fiction articles on a variety of topics including food, travel, philosophy, academics, technology, management, health, pet parenting, teaching stories and self help in magazines and published a large number of professional research papers in journals and edited in-house journals for many years, before the advent of blogging. Vikram has taught at a University as a Professor for almost 15 years and now teaches as a visiting faculty and devotes most of his time to creative writing. Vikram lives in Pune India with his family and muse - his pet dog Sherry with whom he takes long walks thinking creative thoughts.

Vikram Karve Academic and Creative Writing Journal: http://karvediat.blogspot.com
Professional Profile Vikram Karve: http://www.linkedin.com/in/karve
Vikram Karve Facebook Page:  https://www.facebook.com/vikramkarve
Vikram Karve Creative Writing Blog: http://vikramkarve.sulekha.com/blog/posts.htm
Email: vikramkarve@sify.com
      
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