Wednesday, March 20, 2013

WHAT IS THE UTILITY VALUE OF LOVE

WHAT IS THE UTILITY VALUE OF LOVE
Musings
By
VIKRAM KARVE

In materialistic world of today, you must have a motive for doing something. 


You must “gain” something from doing an activity.

After all, you are investing your precious time, talent and effort in the activity.

So you must get your RETURN ON INVESTMENT (ROI)

So if you spend your time and effort pursuing some activity there must be some material motive for doing that.

There is a utility value attached to everything.

You are expected to gain something - it can be POWER, WEALTH or FAME.

It is mostly Wealth or Money. 

Yes, in most cases the motive is MONEY (Wealth).

Many people ask me why I am wasting all my time and so much effort Blogging and Writing when the same time and effort could be put to “good” use doing something worthwhile to earn money. 

“You spend so much time and effort blogging, they say. 

And then they ask me, What do you gain from blogging? 

Why don't you monetize your blog?” other well-wishers say, “at least you will earn some money for your efforts. 

Is the aim of education solely to get a job? 

Yes, that is the utility value of education. 

But what about the joys of learning? 
Why can
t people understand that a person can do something for the sheer enjoyment of doing it, without any material or ulterior motive. 

Another person asked me why I spend so much time with my pet dog Sherry and look after her so lovingly.

“Are you making money by selling her pups? he asked, and was surprised when I told him that I did not have any intention of mating my dog.

Maybe he had seen some persons who keep dogs as a business and as a means to make money by breeding them.

He could not believe it when I told him that I keep a dog just for the sheer love the dog bestows on me.

“But what is the use of love? What do you gain from love? 

“But what is the use of love? What do I gain from love? Well, love creates positive vibes in me, generates inner happiness. 

Why do we try and analyse the utility value in each and every thing - even love?

Does love have a utility value?

What is the utility value of love?

Let me quote an Urdu couplet I heard long back. 

(I cannot translate it exactly but will try to give you the gist)

Someone once asked a lover:


इश्क का क्या फायदा  (What do you gain from love?)


The lover replied:


फायदे का क्या फायदा  (What do you gain from gain?)


Why do we look for profit or reward in anything we do? 

Why do we have expectations in a relationship?

Yes, even in relationships we see a utility value.

Why do we always expect a RETURN ON INVESTMENT? 

Why can't we do something just for the sake of doing it, for the sheer enjoyment of that activity, just like we do in the case of true love or इश्क 

Do we look for Return on Investment when we love someone? 

What do you gain from love? 

What do you gain from gain?

इश्क का क्या फायदा  ?

फायदे का क्या फायदा  ?

Would some connoisseur of Urdu Sher-Shairi  (philosophical poet) be so good as to translate and interpret this couplet for us in a better way please. 

Dear Reader: Do you look for utility value in everything? 
I eagerly await your comments.

VIKRAM KARVE
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A creative person with a zest for life, Vikram Karve is a retired Naval Officer turned full time writer and blogger. Educated at IIT Delhi, IIT (BHU) Varanasi, The Lawrence School Lovedale and Bishops School Pune, Vikram has published two books: COCKTAIL a collection of fiction short stories about relationships (2011) and APPETITE FOR A STROLL a book of Foodie Adventures (2008) and is currently working on his novel and a book of vignettes and an anthology of short fiction. An avid blogger, he has written a number of fiction short stories and creative non-fiction articles on a variety of topics including food, travel, philosophy, academics, technology, management, health, pet parenting, teaching stories and self help in magazines and published a large number of professional  and academic research papers in journals and edited in-house journals and magazines for many years, before the advent of blogging. Vikram has taught at a University as a Professor for 15 years and now teaches as a visiting faculty and devotes most of his time to creative writing and blogging. Vikram Karve lives in Pune India with his family and muse - his pet dog Sherry with whom he takes long walks thinking creative thoughts.

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