WISDOM IN HUMOR
IS THERE A SWEET CHILLI ?
DON'T CLING - LET GO and MOVE ON
A Teaching Story
By
VIKRAM KARVE
Do you have a tendency to continue to cling on endlessly to suffocating inharmonious relationships?
Do you persist with an unrewarding career?
Do you find it difficult to get rid of harmful activities and unhealthy habits?
Do you cling on to all sorts of infructuous, incompatible, negative, deteriorating, dissipating and dead-end situations in life.
Why don't you just let go of all these detrimental damaging things and move on in life?
Maybe the answers lies in this apocryphal story I heard long back, whose inner meaning has had a profound positive effect in formulating my philosophy of life:
WAITING FOR THE SWEET CHILLY
On his first visit to India, a rich merchant saw a man selling a small green fruit which he had never seen before.
The merchant was hungry and the luscious green fruit looked so fresh and appetizing and the merchant was tempted and curious, so he asked the vendor, “What is this...?”
“Hirvee Mirchi. Chillies, fresh green chillies,” said the hawker.
The merchant held out a gold coin and the vendor was so overjoyed that he gave the merchant the full basket of chillies.
The merchant sat down under a tree and stared to munch the chillies.
Within a few seconds his tongue was on fire, his mouth burning and tears streamed down his cheeks.
But despite this discomfort, the merchant went on eating the chillies, chewing them one by one, scrutinizing each chilli carefully before he put the piquant hot green chilly into his burning mouth.
Seeing his condition, a passerby remarked, “What’s wrong with you...? Why don’t you stop eating those spicy hot chillies... ? ”
“Maybe out of all these chillies there is one that is sweet,” the merchant answered, “I am waiting for the sweet chilly.”
And the merchant continued eating the chillies.
On his way back, the passerby noticed that the merchant’s condition had become miserable, his face red with agony and copious tears pouring out of his burning eyes.
But the merchant kept on eating the chillies, in his search for the ‘sweet one’.
“Stop at once, or you will die,” the passerby shouted. “There are no sweet chillies... Haven’t you realized that...? Look at the basket – it is almost empty. And have you found even one sweet chilly yet...? ”
“I cannot stop until I eat all the chillies. I have to finish the whole basketful,” the merchant croaked in agony, “I have paid for the full basket and I will make sure I get my full money’s worth by eating all the chillies.”
MORAL OF THE STORY
Dear Reader:
Read this story once more, reflect on it, and apply it to your life.
Do you cling on to unsatisfying things, uncongenial people and strained relationships even when your inner voice tells you to let go and move on in life?
Sometimes, a relationship is so demoralized by distrust that it is better to terminate it and put an end to the relationship and break up rather than make futile attempts to patch up and continue searching in vain and suffering in pain for the elusive “sweet chilly”.
We know some things are not good for us and we should let go of these things.
But we continue to persist.
First, we hope to find ‘sweet chilly’ and keep on suffering pain.
Then, even when we discover that there is no ‘sweet chilly’, we still continue to shackle ourselves to painful people, strained relationships, harmful habits, negative careers and detrimental things when we should let go, move on, liberate ourselves and be happy.
Remember there is no sweet chilly.
So is there any point to cling onto painful relationships and harmful things in vain hope of discovering a “sweet chilly”?
Is it not better, instead of clinging on, to let go and move on in life?
Do you agree? Please comment and let us know your views.
VIKRAM KARVE
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Professional Profile Vikram Karve: http://www.linkedin.com/in/karve
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So true. Sometimes there really is no best part, and it's wiser to let go and start fresh, although it is the harder thing to do.
ReplyDelete@ Chaitanya - Absolutely. You must let go and start afresh.
ReplyDeleteIf only we could let go. we cling to thoughts (Bad more than good), acquaintances, things and live life only collecting and not letting go. biggest satisfaction ironically is when we let go. spring cleaning is so much more satisfying after the event but getting to make the first move is so difficult for so many of us...
ReplyDelete@ free bird - apt expression for letting go - SPRING CLEANING :)
ReplyDeleteOne thing that you need to be sure that the basket of fruit you have got is a basket of "Chillies" where there is no chance of getting a sweet one.
ReplyDeleteOtherwise you may be giving up at single bad "cucumber" too