tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4710313771389348282.post8096113712049958626..comments2024-03-27T20:32:32.879+05:30Comments on Academic and Creative Writing Journal Vikram Karve: DIVORCE IS NOT AN OPTIONVikram Waman Karvehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00290102473130246523noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4710313771389348282.post-85777799532058721732013-06-04T11:24:01.148+05:302013-06-04T11:24:01.148+05:30Hi Pankti,
You do have a very valid point about &q...Hi Pankti,<br />You do have a very valid point about "self respect". <br />Yes, husbands and wives can have difference of opinions, even fight, but must take care that they do not impinge on the self-respect of the partner.<br />You have said it very aptly : It is self-respect rather than love that sustains marriages. <br />Thank you for your views which have added value to my blog<br />Regards<br />VikramVikram Waman Karvehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00290102473130246523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4710313771389348282.post-48444851801377845362013-06-03T17:03:46.008+05:302013-06-03T17:03:46.008+05:30Well, I really commend the fact you are married fo...Well, I really commend the fact you are married for 31 years. Congratulations. :) But I don't agree with you. Who likes to go through a divorce? But when there are certain issues, such as abuse, it's better to stand up for oneself. It's called self-respect. I also think respect, rather than love, can be a great foundation for an ever-lasting marriage.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17846323466187478742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4710313771389348282.post-11555510452541769792013-05-30T17:00:59.059+05:302013-05-30T17:00:59.059+05:30Sorry Sir... was about to comment on this post and...Sorry Sir... was about to comment on this post and posted under [http://karvediat.blogspot.in/2013/05/31-years-of-marriage-then-and-now.html].I just love your all posts.You express all your feelings and thoughts in such an amazing way.I am also a writer.But just a beginner.Debarati Dattahttp://debaratisblog.blogspot.in/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4710313771389348282.post-58047357647358170222013-05-30T12:32:53.176+05:302013-05-30T12:32:53.176+05:30@ Chaitanya - Come on, in every marriage both make...@ Chaitanya - Come on, in every marriage both make "sacrifices" and "adjustments". Only thing is sometimes the "sacrifices" of one spouse may be easily evident and of the other may not be that visible.<br />Yes, if there is too much imbalance, then things can be difficult and take their toll on the relationship.<br />Thanks for your wishes.<br />Of course, we are going to celebrate <br />Wait - that's what the next fight is going to be about - HOW TO CELEBRATE? - so I am just going to do what my dear wife wants to do<br />:)Vikram Waman Karvehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00290102473130246523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4710313771389348282.post-8115753989181904172013-05-30T12:27:58.497+05:302013-05-30T12:27:58.497+05:30@ Monika - you are absolutely right - every marria...@ Monika - you are absolutely right - every marriage is specific and unique. Must learn the "gifting" bit - its never too late.<br />Thanks for your wishes<br />Regards<br />VikramVikram Waman Karvehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00290102473130246523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4710313771389348282.post-33604450151205884412013-05-30T10:36:41.138+05:302013-05-30T10:36:41.138+05:30Congratulations to you and your wife. It was a ver...Congratulations to you and your wife. It was a very beautiful and honest post. I loved reading each line of it. <br /><br />Conjugal ties are strange. They are very specific and unique for each couple. <br /><br />For me, I'd like to be in a marriage, where despite all fights and quarrels, we'd unite with love. <br /><br />A marriage without love is difficult to live in. Now how you define this love, depends a lot on you. This again is specific and unique.<br /><br />Exchange of little gifts (toke of love) on occasions like birthdays/anniversaries etc., keeps the flames burning,<br /><br />Yes, I agree. For a marriage with differences in tastes, choices, and desires. Marriage means to accommodate each other's differences with maturity and affection - if not love.MONIKA BAKSHIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09180111423524220172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4710313771389348282.post-16296863034589161642013-05-30T01:47:09.947+05:302013-05-30T01:47:09.947+05:30I come from that school of thought too, but I also...I come from that school of thought too, but I also believe that it's better to start fresh if your relationship is causing you both mental anguish.<br />It's easy for us, who have understanding partners, to say that you have to make compromises in a marriage. But what if only one partner ends up making all sacrifices? How long can you be taken for granted? Such situations are better ended than adjusted with.<br />Happy anniversary! 31 years certainly calls for a big celebration!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com